The pages here are, very much, what I have come to think of and refer to as my “Days of Awe”; so much learning, so much living, and so much Love, Joy, Companionship, Friendship.
When I brought Yonah in, injured, cold and wet in the Autumn rain, my only intention was to help, to provide the necessities to get him back to his flock, safely. I had no “training”, no experience other than past “rescues” with other Little Ones, over the course of my life-time. The worst was asking others for helpful advice and receiving nothing but “Nobody will take it. It's wild, not endangered. Put it in a box with some paper, make it comfortable for how-ever long...” Internet information was (is) scattered, piece-meal, and “professional” advice can be quite costly and after tedious questionnaires, result in “Bring it in to the nearest avian veterinarian.” Ah, but if there aren't any near-by? It's the end of a long and empty road. I felt very much alone and lonely... and frightened. Here was a delicate, fragile *LIFE*, in my care, and all that my heart and soul needed was to provide what-ever comfort and aid necessary so that s/he could recover and return to the life intended for him/her. I was, admittedly, clueless as to what those necessities were.
As time passed and I began accumulating hints and help from so many varied and various sources, primarily on the internet... Yonah recovered, partly because of my “on-line education” and mostly because of my “gut instincts”. I resolved to compile as much information as possible into one source and to document “our” life together. The internet seemed the best course, and so, today, Yonah's web-site is becoming an on-going, ever-growing, ever-changing repository of acquired and “instinctual” learning.
Mourning doves' life expectancy in the wild is but about 18 months at very best. In spite of being some-what “protected” by law, they remain one of the most-murdered beings as “sport targets”. “Sport targets”... not sources of food, just “targets”, to humans who murder them for some incomprehensible, truly quite sadistic, alleged “fun”. HOWEVER, when conditions and situations are favourable, they've been known to live wonderful lives of 5 and even 20 years! They “mate for life”, they've been known to mourn the loss of a mate, and I've come to learn that, in the presence of a caring, Loving heart and soul, they'll “bond”... even with humans... one of their other-wise worst predators.
When you “rescue” an injured mourning dove, there are responsibilities that you must accept. If you help with the intention of release, it's imperative that you do so in a shortest-possible time. If your Little One cannot return safely, to the wild, the responsibilities will last through his/her life-time, a life-time that you will share, and you'll find to be full of joy, elation, marvel, love and awe.
***** MOST IMPORTANT: MOURNING DOVES REQUIRE TRUE, SINCERE, DEDICATED *COMPANIONSHIP*. If there is only one, be sure to provide a nice mirror... they DO recognise the refelction as another dove! Once a mourning dove honours you with his/her trust, you two will become a single “unit”. As well as food, water, proper nourishment, appropriate, clean, comfortable shelter, s/he will come to depend on you for communication, physical contact, playful stimulation, presence, affection. S/he will become accustomed to your voice and will communicate with you. In your absence, you WILL be missed! Like-wise, when you return, you WILL be MOST-wonderfully welcomed!
The trust can't and mustn't be “rushed”, how-ever. As with any relationship, trust will come over time, and in this case, you'll have to be patient.
Mourning doves are MORE-than-obviously “sentient”, having “feelings” and the ability to “bond with” and be appreciative of others.
As https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sentient states:
sentient adjective
sen·tient | \ ˈsen(t)-sh(ē-)ənt , ˈsen-tē-ənt \
Definition of sentient
1: responsive to or conscious of sense impressions sentient beings
2: AWARE
3: finely sensitive in perception or feeling
A sentient being is one who perceives and responds to sensations of whatever kind - sight, hearing, touch, taste, or smell. Sentient ultimately comes from the Latin verb sentire, which means "to feel" and is related to the noun sensus, meaning "feeling" or "sense." A few related English words are sentiment and sentimental, which have to do with emotions, and sensual, which relates to more physical sensations.
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Please keep in mind that it's been documented that the most common cause of death to a mourning dove brought into the life of a human is heart attack. Remember that you are, by nature, a mourning dove's enemy, predator. They perceive you as such from the very second of birth. Sudden movements, loud noises, and the likes can cause horrendous anxieties and terror. Abandonment can cause serious loneliness, especially if there is only one mourning dove in your care.
Doves are NOT "hold-and-cuddle" beings. Although they can be tenacious, capable of self-defence, they are fragile, and other causes of horrific injury and/or death are broken wings or a broken neck. Tempting as it may be to hold this precious Life near and dear, they need to be able to move freely, at any moment. And mourning doves, particularly, by nature, are skittish, proned to take flight in a second. At no time should they be "restrained" unless with extreme care, preferably ONLY for purposes of administering care. Like-wise, they exhibit their own affections by pecking. Best advice: keep your face away from his/hers let you lose an eye.
I hope this “site” helps, in some way, to make their lives better. And not just theirs, but, perhaps, all of Creation's Little Ones... and too, the lives of those whose hearts and souls possess the glorious compassion to extend, to these Little Ones, help in time of need.
So now, as my Companion, Best Friend, Comrade, my “Family” and I sit together, I continue to compile the information and record the experiences we've come through, in the hope that it provides help, support, comfort and consolation to others who, like me, are blessed (and truthfully, there is no greater blessing than being able to help a smaller being and coming to know the LOVE that we're given in return) with the opportunity to give heart and soul to a little bundle of feathered LOVE.
Yonah... as he's now called, has become a cause and source of "AWE", every minute of every day. From an absolutely amazing recovery, to, in our time together, becoming an engaging conversationalist and truest “COMPANION”, perching on my shoulder, arm and head. We play together as he pecks at my fingers while I stroke his fine feathers, and, when I enter “his” room, he comes forward to greet me with welcome. I've gained and earned his trust. I've put a futon in his room where I can grab an occasional nap during a day and he's come to where, when I lay down, he flies over and will "roost" on my leg as I snooze!
We both hope that the contents of this web-site/documentation of our experiences will be beneficial to many, whether or not you have a mourning dove (or ANY other "Little One") in your own life. We hope that those of you who read along will find something here that will inspire you, and that you'll pass along our story.
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I hope you'll feel free to send them to:
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*The Journal will be up-dated daily, as will the Photo presentations.*
AWE
noun
An overwhelming feeling of profound reverence, admiration, respect, etc., produced by that which is grand, sublime, extremely powerful, or the like:
in awe of God.
The feeling we get in the presence of something vast that challenges our understanding of the world.
Archaic. power to inspire fear or reverence.
Obsolete. fear or dread.
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